Showing posts with label Planning tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Planning tips. Show all posts

Thursday, 2 June 2011

How to have Happy Bridesmaids

Bridesmaids are a big part of your Big Day. You probably have selected your closest friends or Sister or like me had some hard decisions to make about who your Bridesmaids are if you have an extended group of friends from childhood and University as well as family to consider. Unfortunately my budget didn't stretch to the full 11 adult bridesmaids so I opted for family and one friend who I had lived  with through University and up until we both moved in with our then Boyfriends and now Husbands.

Picking your Bridesmaids can be tricky but picking their dresses can be trickier still. Adult Bridesmaids will probably set you back about £200 to £250.00 each by the time you have bought a dress, shoes, a gift and a bouquet and that doesn't even cover any hair and make up. Of course you can do it a lot cheaper if you can find dresses on the high street or in sales. Great High Street options are Monsoon or Coast, which both have regular sales. This dove grey Kipp Dress from Monsoon is £110.00 from www.monsoon.co.uk and is very elegant with it's soft draping and embellished neck and waist.



With adult Bridesmaids it's nice to have a consistent theme or colour but to allow them to express some individuality. Also it's essential to consider that Bridesmaids come in different shapes and sizes and some may not feel comfortable in short, strapless or low cut. One great idea I have seen recently is an innovative design from Two Maids that means that all of your Bridesmaids can have the same dress but wear it in 15 totally different ways from strapless, backless, halter, cap sleeves or one shoulder.

These dresses can be bought in Bristol from the Mews, Clifton www.themewsclifton.co.uk. You can also buy a matching bandeau to go underneath for a more modest look, which is great for curvier girls. They even work on pregnant Bridesmaids too thanks to their flowing silk jersey design. They also make ties to match all of the colours for a complete look for the guys too. The Photos below courtesy of Two Birds at the Mews Clifton, show the full length dress with two of the 15 options.



If you are having little Bridesmaids Monsoon Girl has some lovely dresses like this Audrey Butterfly one for £46.00 show below. For Brides on a tighter budget it's worth checking out BHS for a range of coordinating dresses and little waistcoats and cravats for any page boys.


As it's the tradition in the UK that Bridesmaids don't pay for their dresses but get to keep them it's well worth getting them something that they will wear again.

Wednesday, 27 April 2011

How to Plan Like a Royal

If anyone has seen recent news about the Royal Wedding there's little doubt that it has been planned with military precision. Even the arrival of the guests is planned by the minute to accommodate road closures, Royal protocol and security issues. Catherine and William's big day looks something like this, as reported on bbbc.co.uk/news

  • Between 0815 and 0945 - The general congregation will arrive at the Great North Door of Westminster Abbey.
  • From 0950 - Prime ministers and governors-general of various Commonwealth countries, the diplomatic corps and other guests arrive at the Abbey.
  • 1010 - Prince William and Prince Harry leave Clarence House for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1015 - Prince William and Prince Harry arrive at the Abbey.
  • 1020 - Members of foreign royal families arrive at Westminster Abbey from Buckingham Palace.
  • 1020 - Kate Middleton's mother, Carole, and brother, James, leave the Goring Hotel for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1025 - Minor members of the Royal Family leave Buckingham Palace for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1035 - The Duke of York and his daughters, Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie, leave for Westminster Abbey along with the Earl and Countess of Wessex, the Princess Royal and Vice-Admiral Timothy Laurence.
  • 1038 - The Prince of Wales and the Duchess of Cornwall leave Clarence House for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1040 - The Queen and the Duke of Edinburgh leave Buckingham Palace for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1048 - The bridesmaids and pages leave the Goring Hotel for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1051 - The bride, accompanied by her father Michael, leaves the Goring Hotel for Westminster Abbey.
  • 1100 - The marriage service begins and is relayed by speakers along the route.
  • 1215 - The carriage procession of the bride and bridegroom with a captain's escort of the Household Cavalry, followed by the Queen's procession with a sovereign's escort of the Household Cavalry, leaves Westminster Abbey for Buckingham Palace.
  • 1230 - The bride's carriage procession arrives at Buckingham Palace.
  • 1240 - Members of the Royal Family and members of foreign royal families arrive at Buckingham Palace.
  • 1325 - The Queen and the bride and bridegroom, together with their families, appear on the balcony.
  • 1330 - Fly-past by the Royal Air Force and Battle of Britain Memorial Flight.
So how is this relevant to a "normal" Bride and Groom? Actually there's a few tips that anyone planning a wedding can follow. It is well worth considering the exact timings of the day even for a small wedding. This is vital to ensure that the day runs smoothly and everyone involved knows what needs to be done and when. Our How 2 I Do Wedding Planning Workshops offer an interactive timescale planning tool that allows you to track the timings for your day and to also delegate responsibility for certain areas to key members of your wedding party. We have received great feedback about how useful this tool is to ensure that everything goes to plan.

Here's a few more great tips from How 2 I Do on how to Marry like a Royal...
  • Make sure that as the Bride or Groom you are not responsible for doing anything on the day - delegate tasks to your Best Man, ushers and Bridesmaids and make sure they have contact details for key suppliers
  • The Royal Wedding may be rainy. Have a clear contingency plan for wet weather such as big umbrellas and an indoor photo and drinks reception location
  • Plan timings with precision and make sure you know how long it will take to drive to the wedding venues, how long the speeches will be and how long the photos will take
  • You may not be marrying a real Prince but make sure you feel like a Princess and be sure to have all of your beauty essentials on hand to be "close up" ready at all times
  • You don't need to follow Royal protocol but brush up on Wedding etiquette such as how the top table should be laid out and in which order the speeches should take place (Father of the Bride, Groom and then Best Man)
  • Why not take inspiration and go for a Cool Britannia theme with lots of Union Jack Bunting and a street party style reception
  • Prince William will be having a special chocolate biscuit cake so why have fruit cake if you don't like it or for more variety have tiers with different cake flavours
  • Kate Middleton has a very individual look and likes to be perfectly groomed and stylish rather than cutting edge fashionable. Make sure that your wedding look reflects your personal style so that you are a highly groomed version of yourself.
For more planning help, why not come to one of our Wedding Planning Workshops. We have two new dates available in June and July and 20% off if you book this month. Visit us at www.how2ido.co.uk/workshops for more information.